If you want to get your girl to try anal sex with you, there are going to be a few very important things to remember. This is definitely not something that all women are willing to do, at least right away. It is crucial that you know about all of the different tips and tricks to get her to try anal sex with you right away. Most guys love having anal sex with girls, but they usually take some convincing. You will need to prepare yourself for the girl to say no to your request, because so many of them do. Sometimes despite your best efforts you will get rejected. It is important that you wait a little bit and then bring up the subject again later on in the future. Most girls are worried about how much doing anal is going to hurt, so you will need to make sure that you comfort and reassure her as much as possible. You should focus on making her feel good about trying anal even before it has happened.
1. I'm pretty sure the butt wasn't made to be penetrated. Is anal sex bad for you?
Our editorial content is not influenced by any commissions we receive. Sign up for The Complex Newsletter for breaking news, events, and unique stories. In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. Ah, anal sex! Once the excitement of oral and standard piping wears off, back-door entry becomes the last item an average dude hopes to check off his sexual to-do list. If you've already awkwardly asked her about it, it may seem like she has no interest, but you're just not approaching it properly. Sometimes, women are put off because they never tried it in the right setting or with someone they felt comfortable enough with.
2. There are official anal sex rules?
Use lube. You have no idea how sexy male moans are. Start out by using a finger.
I felt so bad for the women in the previous article , having anal sex when it obviously wasn't something they liked. We're in charge of our sexuality, and we ought to own it. I love anal and hate receiving oral , so I'm really weird, but so what? I have someone who appreciates me for me. I first tried it 15 years ago, with my husband. I'd had fantasies about it before and was more into doing it — I expected to like it as much as I ultimately do. We had tried buttplay before, using fingers, and I always loved it. I don't talk about it with my friends much, because there's a stigma against women who enjoy it.